A New Way to Begin a New Year 

                  The Old Way: Resolution

You force yourself to get it together. You may join a gym with the resolution to exercise every day and declare you will never eat sweets again. After the excitement of the initial declaration of commitment wears off, you miss one day of exercise and feel like a failure. Or you eat one piece of chocolate and your whole day is ruined.  

The problem is that resolutions tend to be too grand, too big and too short lived. Resolutions are often followed by “cheating,” guilt, and disappointment. Change doesn’t happen through force, punishment, or deprivation. When provided with the right environment of kindness, encouragement, and consistency, change unfolds naturally.

          


A New Way:  Rest



 

 

 “I said to my soul be still
   and wait… so the darkness
   shall be the light and the
   stillness the dancing.”
 
                             –TS Elliot

 

Maybe, like many of us, you do not have the energy to charge into the New Year. After all, it’s winter. The leaves fall and all the bulbs go underground. Many creatures hibernate. Only humans disregard this natural cycle as electric lights push back the darkness. Rather than fight against winter, you could surrender into the stillness the quiet and the dark, even if it’s just for five minutes a day.

Renew your life force by a process that spells R E S T

R   Recline in your most comfortable chair, with a warm fuzzy blanket around you.

E  Exhale. Feel all of the tension of the holidays simply melting away… dissolving.

S   Soften. Bring your attention to your belly, breathing in deeply, soften your belly, let it fill with air, allowing a warm wave of breath to fill the center of your body.

T  Trust. Imagine a ball of light like a bright sun, glowing in the center of your belly. Feel the warmth and radiance of this brilliant sun cleansing, cleaning out all the debris, all of the residue in your digestive track. Picture yourself drinking an abundance of pure fresh water, creating a flowing river. This river flows down through your digestive tract, clearing out all of the toxins, all the accumulation of the past few months, and washing it out with the tide.

 As a hynpotherapist and life coach for the past 30 years, I see over and over again how kindness, relaxation, rest and positive suggestions promote change that is lasting and sustaining. When you choose to rest, you work with the natural rhythms of your body and creates change that will nourish you now and throughout the year. 

If you would like to see how this can apply to your daily life, please sign up for a complimentary coaching session by clicking the button. 

 

 

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