Subject: Exploring a New Messaging Option
I’d like your assistance with this CMCS test project:
In addition to this usual email newsletter format, I’m experimenting with a family-friendly private messaging service (similar to texting but not owned by big tech) that avoids common email issues like getting sent to spam or bouncing. It's called TeleGuard and it is free to use. As email becomes increasingly filtered and complicated, much like social media, I want to offer a more straightforward communication method. Once you join and follow me, please let me know there that you’re part of CMCS, and I will link you to a channel to share content from this newsletter and more. This platform will also allow for one-on-one or group connections through texting, phone calls, and video meetings. Let us be in community, and then invite others to create your own community.
In other words, while email remains essential for accessing many online services, it’s becoming less ideal for personal conversations. I encourage you to consider using an instant messaging platform that ensures privacy and secrecy for your communications, which is our human right and becoming more scarce on the internet. Fortunately, the people at Teleguard (Swisscows), who I belive are Catholic, are providing a 'fresh air' alternative.
~ Frank J Casella, Co-founder & Executive Director
ID: fjcasella
TeleGuard: a messenger aimed at respecting our common right to private communication on the Internet, at protecting the privacy of every person on our planet, at protecting the family and family values. |
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Fourth Week of Advent 2024 |
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Dear CMCS Men, we hope you're doing well! At Catholic Men Chicago Southland (CMCS), we're committed to fostering personal holiness and supporting men, husbands and fathers to live the mission of Catholic manhood - To make Jesus Christ the center of our daily lives. As part of our dedication to the community, we wanted to share some exciting and engaging topics with you for each week of Advent 2024. Enjoy! -- The CMCS Team
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(From the Archdiocese of Chicago)
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Amidst the Holiday noise and chaos from the commercial industries, the Advent season is a time of expectant waiting and preparation for the celebration of the Nativity of Jesus at Christmas.
If you are a husband and father, your family looks toward you especially at times like this for spiritual leadership and direction.
This Advent, GIVE yourself deliberate time of silence and resolute to bring yourself – and your family – closer to Christ!
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Catholic Man Moment Video Message
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Photo: Husbands and Wives - Holga Effect:
There is a religious element to moments in time like this: The commitment of marriage as instituted by God - how Mom and Dad together support their children, and marriage, while juggling their independence as individuals (Visit image page for extended description). Copyright 2012 Frank J Casella. Purchase here or shop my favorite photos. |
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By Frank J Casella, CMCS Co-founder & Executive Director |
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As I reflect on the profound wisdom of Malachi 2:15, I am reminded of the struggles that many couples face, including my own journey through nearly 35 years of marriage. There was a time several years ago when my wife and I found ourselves on the brink of divorce, caught in the whirlwind of anger, hurt, and uncertainty. It was a devastating period that tested our faith and commitment to one another. Yet, through perseverance and, more importantly, by the grace and mercy of God, we were able to navigate those turbulent waters and emerge stronger together. Our relationship has become since a constant work in progress, requiring dedication and understanding, a reminder that love is not merely a feeling but a lifelong commitment. The journey is ongoing, filled with its ups and downs, but it is one we continue to embrace, cherishing the bond we share and honoring our vows to each other.
As I engage in conversations with fellow Catholic men about the trials of marriage and the painful realities of divorce in today’s world, a troubling pattern emerges. It seems that marriage, a sacred covenant between a man and a woman, faces unprecedented challenges amid our culture’s shifting values. The decline in weddings, alongside the rising trend of cohabitation, reflects a deeper struggle against the very foundations of our faith. During the festive seasons, from Thanksgiving to New Year’s, the impact of divorce looms large, affecting our lives and relationships in profound ways, whether directly or indirectly. It’s a time when Satan appears to intensify his efforts, sowing confusion and distraction, pulling us away from the truths we hold dear. It’s crucial that we remain steadfast in our commitment to the sanctity of marriage and support one another in these challenging times, keeping our faith alive and nurturing the bonds that unite us.
Avoiding Divorce
In the journey of love, the prospect of divorce often looms like a storm cloud, tempting couples with the promise of relief from their troubles. Yet, as Dr. Gary Chapman reveals in his insightful book, '
The One Year Love Language Minute Devotional,’ the reality is far more complex. Many who choose to part ways discover that their second or third marriages do not necessarily yield the happiness they seek. “The grass being greener on the other side of the fence is a myth,” Chapman wisely notes. This serves as a poignant reminder that divorce should be a last resort, not a quick exit. It’s essential for couples to first dig deep, confronting their differences and seeking resolution—because many have found that, with the right guidance and perseverance, reconciliation is not just possible, but transformative. As we navigate the intricate weave of relationships, let’s hold on to the hope that love can be rekindled, even when times are tough.
Guys have Hope!
Imagine navigating the rocky waters of a relationship, only to discover that the key to sailing smoothly lies within you. With the right information and proper support, you can become a positive change agent in your relationship. Take a moment to reflect on God's wisdom: guard your heart, remain faithful to your spouse, and seek help when needed. The path toward divorce is often filled with pain and difficulty. Healing isn't a race; it's a journey that unfolds in God's time. In my own experience with divorce, I realized the transformative power of perspective. Dr. Ray Guarendi, in his insightful book ‘
Marriage: Small Steps, Big Rewards’, reminds us,
“You can’t change your spouse’s behavior and attitude. But you can change yours.” This wisdom inspired me to approach my interactions differently. For instance, by taking a few moments of steering clear of heated discussions, I began to foster a healthier environment. Embrace the journey of change, and you just might find a way to heal together.
When I went through my divorce experience I found there was very little online about men and divorce, as much as there was for women. So I decided then to do something about it by writing more articles – and this is one of them. |
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Explore our inspiration blog featuring support, encouragement, and Catholic information related to our mission of fostering Catholic Men. |
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The CMCS Mission: Catholic Men Chicago Southland (CMCS) is engaged in fostering holy and courageous men and proclaiming the importance of husbands and fathers to children and the family.
CMCS is a Catholic Apostolate of Very Rev. Larry Sullivan, Interim Vicar, and founded in 2004 by Bishop Emeritus Joseph N. Perry, Deacon John Rangel, and (Executive Director) Frank J Casella.
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STAYING CONNECTED
During this time, if you have any needs or prayer requests, please do not hesitate to contact us by email at contact@cmcsmen.net or by phone at
641-715-3900 X 523082
ID: fjcasella
TeleGuard: a messenger aimed at respecting our common right to private communication on the Internet, at protecting the privacy of every person on our planet, at protecting the family and family values. |
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Catholic Men Chicago Southland
Aplostolate of Very Reverend Larry Sullivan
Founded in 2004 by Bishop Emeritus Joseph N Perry
Executive Director, Frank J Casella
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